Favorite Books for Therapy Beginners
If you’re starting out in the field of therapy, you might find yourself wondering where to begin with professional reading. Over the years, a few books have profoundly shaped how I think about clinical practice and supporting clients. These are not just resources—they’re companions for the journey.
On Being A Therapist — Jeffrey Kottler
Kottler’s classic is more than just a guide; it’s an honest reflection on the joys and challenges of being a mental health practitioner. Through interviews and stories, Kottler addresses not only what goes well in our work, but also the moments that don’t. His words serve as a reminder that perfection isn’t required, and struggling sometimes is part of the process. This book is especially helpful in easing feelings of imposter syndrome. For anyone beginning in the field, it offers a refreshing perspective and gentle reassurance.
Trauma Stewardship — Laura van Dernoot Lipsky
Lipsky’s book offers a compassionate and practical framework for understanding how clients’ stories impact us as trauma therapists. She creates a safe and supportive space within the pages, inviting readers to recognize the emotional weight they carry. Trauma Stewardship teaches valuable practices and mindset shifts—foundational skills for caring for ourselves as we help others. Her approach blends practical advice with thoughtful reflection, making it an essential addition to any therapist’s bookshelf.
A Child Called “It” Trilogy — Dave Pelzer
Therapeutic work exposes us to a wide spectrum of human experiences—some stories are incredibly difficult to hear and hold. Pelzer’s memoir, along with its sequels The Lost Boy and A Man Named Dave, chronicles not only trauma but also resilience and recovery. These accounts are powerful reminders of the strength of the human spirit and the possibility of healing after deep suffering. Reading these books can foster empathy, hope, and a greater appreciation for the journey clients undertake toward healing.
Each of these books is recommended not only for the insight and knowledge they offer, but also for how they encourage us—as practitioners—to remain humble, compassionate, and open to growth. Whether you’re just beginning your career or looking to deepen your understanding, these reads are grounding companions along the therapeutic path.[1]
